For most of my life, I felt like I was “too much” or “not enough.” I was called “too sensitive,” “too emotional,” or, when I tried to protect myself, “too cold” or “too harsh.” I struggled to connect with others, often hiding my true self or playing a role just to fit in.

Deep down, I just wanted to feel accepted and “good enough.” I became a people-pleaser, constantly seeking validation from others and beating myself up over mistakes. The guilt of the past and worry about the future kept me from ever enjoying the present.

And then I hit the hardest three years of my life - divorce, supporting my two children through their own struggles, facing challenges at work, and surviving a significant heart attack. Something had to change.

Then one day I stumbled on a book, and my spiritual journey began- focusing on inner work, growth, and healing. I realised I couldn’t rely on external validation anymore. It was time to stop hiding, to be brave, and to embrace my true self.

This journey isn’t easy or quick. It’s a daily commitment to grow, heal, and forgive myself. I'm not perfect; I am constantly evolving. But what I do know now is that I am worthy and enough, just as I am.